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skills and characteristics, pt. 2
Dear angel,
Here is a list of some things that I think a submissive girl, like yourself, should be able to do.
Skills
- Make a rum and coke the way I like it.
- Make steak the way I like it
- Massage my shoulders
- Scratch my back
- Give a good blowjob
- Give a good handjob
- Learn the signs of my arousal
- Write me a dirty story
Communications
- Tell me what you're feeling.
- Tell me when something feels good
- Tell me when something hurts
- Give me your tears when I want them
- Use your safeword when necessary
- Ask me questions
- Ask me for stories
Appearances
- Wear black, because it emphasizes your beautiful skin
- Wear frills, because it reminds me of gift wrapping
- Wear heels, because it makes your legs look awesome
- Take pride in your appearance - I think you're beautiful, and I want you to feel the same way.
- Know where your collar is, and when to wear it
- Know what your hard boundaries are.
- Let me push the other boundaries
Timing
- Know when to beg
- Know when to whine
- Know when to mouth off to me
- Know when to touch me
- Know when NOT to touch me
Obedience
- Complete your assignments
- Ask permission to cum when we're together
- Let me know when you're going to make yourself cum when we're apart
- Accept my decisions, but not too gracefully
- Give me advice when I ask for it
- Don't give me advice when I tell you I don't want it
- Trust me to take control
- Fight me for control
Relating
- Challenge my facts
- Teach me what you know
- Learn what I have to teach
- Learn new things to share with me
- Take care of your health
- Enjoy yourself - it's so much more fun to be around someone enjoying themselves
Self knowledge
- Challenge your assumptions about yourself
- Challenge your limitations
- Try things that you haven't tried before
- Challenge my assumptions about you
- Challenge my assumptions about myself
- Introduce me to new foods that you think I'd like
And above all, love yourself as I love you, angel.
Neko
posted at 10:10 PM :: Comments (5) 
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I like this list too :-) Makes me wonder what I'd put on my list to C if I did one...
— posted by: B. on October 18, 2004 05:18 PMBliatz - I do love it when my angel is a brat. It gives me SO much to work with, and it's so much more satisfying when I finally gain control. As I always do. ;-)
B. - You know, it's always nice to hear that I've made someone think about their own lives. (It may be egotistical of me, but I get a thrill anyways.)
— posted by: Neko on October 21, 2004 01:17 PMDon't worry, a selection of your lecherous ideas are being put to good use around this house too! (keep 'em coming, please)
— posted by: Claire on October 22, 2004 03:44 PMClaire: I can't see myself stopping any time soon. I'm having WAY too much fun - and so is angel.
— posted by: Neko on October 25, 2004 10:52 PMWant to read more? Visit the archives »
Mmmmmmm. I like the "fight me for control"-bit very, very much. And I like the fact that you give your relationship this much thought. After all, so much of it is in the mind!
— posted by: Bliatz on October 16, 2004 05:58 PM